Among the various changes we are encountering daily between the previous and recent times, is the new mindset that prefers to have offsprings in an older age.
This
shall have some pros and
are these merits enough to take
such
decision or not?
In the past, women, whether
have been or not, were accustomed to getting married at her early 20s ages and directly have a baby on her bare hands just after
one
year of
marriage
. Since the life at
such
moments have been much easier, cheaper with less needs,
for instance
,
one
would only aim to send his child to a considerate school. To put it in another
way
, no luxurious requirements, unlike nowadays, as participating in a well-known club for different trainings and exercises or going out for
costyentailing great loss or sacrifice
trips frequently. Meanwhile, no much concentration was given to the
way
of raising children properly, but just in a similar method that
this
young mother has been brought up even if it was a false
way
of raising.
Nevertheless
, at the recent moments, people are paying more attention to
this
issue regarding
marriage
and children. Should they be able to offer a relatively high standard of living to their children or not has become a serious concern that mostly yields to postponing the intention of having children just after
marriage
.
For example
, having a man in a relationship but never take a forward step until his savings reach
a couple of hundred
,
this
may
last
to up to 7 years. Despite being more immersed in work and practical life, youth are now frowning of taking a huge responsibility as
marriage
and bringing up children. Whilst these may not be positive reasons, a
one
crucial aspect is the delicate focus on how children are raised in order to supply them with proper mentality and spirit. For
this
specific purpose, I would greatly argue that the benefits of having children in older years
its drawbacks.
In conclusion, to have children and bring them up properly is not
, so the society is tending,
conversely
the past, to do so at the most suitable age, which happens to be an older
one
. Many reasons for
such
way
of thinking including mainly getting stable humans, for that in my view point, I think the strengths of
this
decision overcomes its weaknesses.