Some people agree with spending lot of mpney on large wedding while others thinks it is a waste of money. What is your opinion?
Fancy weddings are becoming more fashionable these days. With the emergence of concepts like destination and
theme based
weddings, people are spending huge amounts on marriages. Some people believe in the idea of an expensive and luxurious wedding, whereas others do not agree with Add a hyphen
theme-based
this
idea. In my opinion, it is not worth to spend a lot of money
on marriage functions.
Firstly
, the wedding is all about two families getting together. It is necessary to make some arrangements for all the guests coming to the function such
as a variety of options to eat and decorating the place. However
, a line needs to be drawn in the amount that one
is spending. For example
, in India, people invite families who are not so close which results in an increase in the number of invitees. Apart from this
, the money
that is
spent on the dresses of the bride and groom is a waste of money
. Especially, nowadays there are dresses which are worn only on the marriage day, as it becomes useless after the ceremony.
Secondly
, the concept of a destination wedding is meaningless. People spend extra cash on travel which is not just for the immediate family but also
for the other guests. With many celebrities getting married fancily and luxuriously, the younger generation is getting highly influenced with such
trends. This
will result in extra burden to the parents. For instance
, parents borrow money
from banks or private money
lenders just to fulfil the wishes of their son\daughter, and they end up paying back the money
rest of their lives. Hence
, knowing one
's limit is extremely important and making sure they do not suffer in future because of a day's happiness.
In conclusion, I believe spending money
on wedding ceremonies is essential but one
should be aware of his\her limits. Always better to plan a budget and follow the same. Although
luxuries bring momentary happiness, one
should not get carried away with it and think of long term joy.Submitted by niranjan.appaji on
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