Parents often give children what they ask and do what they like. Is it good for children? What are the consequences when they grow up?

There is a tendency that parents overindulge their offspring by meeting their every demand. In my view,

this

way of fostering

children

has disadvantages outweighing the advantages and results in detrimental influences on

children

in the foreseen future. It is evident that parents’ overindulgence is harmful to

children

.

First

and foremost, these

children

are inclined to lack a sense of self-discipline. Due to complying with

children

’s requirements regardless of whether they are reasonable or not, parents would enable

children

to believe that rules are not imposed on them.

This

also

means

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they are not likely to know to distinguish right from wrong.

Secondly

, pampering

children

might encourage them to have a superiority complex.

This

is because offspring’s receiving what they wish so easily and frequently that they think it is completely obvious for them to do so.

As a result

, these

children

would develop a wrong mindset,

such

as

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everyone has the duty to serve them. There are certain note-worthy detrimental impacts of

this

child-fostering way when they become adults. The

first

one is that these

children

would be hampered from achieving success in their future life. The habit of taking everything for granted formed at an early age would make them not appreciate the value of hard work.

This

leads to their unwillingness to make progress on their own in the hope of a fulfilling life. The

second

one is that the inability to live independently can cause difficulties in adapting to challenging environments. Having been given

such

special care in the past, they would become oblivious to manage to perform tasks by themselves.

In other words

, they tend to lack vital sets of skills and they;

therefore

, are vulnerable when it comes to obstacles in life. In conclusion, I hold a belief that the tendency of parents satisfying whatever their

children

’s needs

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adverse influences on

children

’s mental and

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development and

this

brings a variety of long-term consequences to

children

.