Some parents believe that children need strict rules. Other parents believe children should have a lot of freedom to make decisions on their own. Discuss both sides and give your opinion

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with offspring can be complicated. Young

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look to their

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for security and order, and

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are one important way they acquire

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sense.

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, as they mature, young people need room to make decisions so they can develop an independent sense of responsibility towards themselves and others. For

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reason, I believe that while

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need clear and consistently enforced

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, they should not be restricted so severely that they have very few opportunities to think independently. Most heirs are subjected to

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they dislike.

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, when the purpose of a rule is communicated clearly and the

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’ enforcement is fair and consistent, a rule can help

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to learn how to take on responsibility and

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appropriately.

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, at a certain age, very young kids are capable of cleaning up their own messes, but often they must be told to do so. The

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must be taught, through

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and repetition, that taking responsibility for one’s own messes is important. As another example, many teenagers don’t always think through the consequences of their actions fully before they

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. Indeed, brain research has shown that teenagers are more likely to

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impulsively because their brains are wired to do so.

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is why

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should be very firm about

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that prevent risky or

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negative behaviours.

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,

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should not be overbearing. The goal of parenting should be to prepare a youngster to make independent choices that will lead to a happy and fulfilling life. The best way to achieve

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goal is to grant more and more freedom as the

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progresses towards adulthood.

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, at some , point a

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must learn to take schoolwork seriously and help out around the house. The ultimate goal is for the

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to internalize the desire to be a good student and a helpful housemate. If

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fail to demonstrate trust by allowing some freedom for their

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to try (and sometimes fail) to do the right things independently, it is likely that the

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will

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out against strict

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rather than internalize them. Of course, every

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will respond to

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differently.

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is yet another reason why it’s important for

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to find the appropriate balance. While

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should enforce

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with consistency and clarity, they should constantly seek opportunities for a

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to show that he or she can

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the right way independently.