It is often believed by some folks that
parents
should be the role of disciplining and teaching their
children
about what’s right and what’s wrong. Whereas, others oppose and claim that
parents
’ main job is to allow their
children
to grow up naturally and provide them with a safe
environment
simultaneously.
Firstly
,
this
essay will discuss the pros and cons of both views in detail, and
lastly
, state the opinion partially in favour of the notion based on various reasons.
First
of all, the major pros for
parents
to be the role of disciplining and teaching their
children
, is that
children
will be able to form their core values of life rapidly, which, will
consequently
help them build up relationships with other strangers and be into the social
environment
easily. To exemplify that, since
parents
have taught their
children
about the world to some extent,
children
can make the judgment on who can be a good friend and who can only be a stranger, which possibly would avoid them from being hurt by bad people.
However
, excessively discipline will make
children
depend on their
parents
too much.
For example
,
parents
give their opinions on many things so that
children
are capable of solving the problems. But when
children
have grown up and become an employee, they may still need their
parents
’ opinions on some childish stuff.
Secondly
, allowing
parents
’
children
to grow up on their own makes them be more independent. Under that situation,
children
will be able to mature earlier, they will have the capability of dealing with a great amount of stuff by themselves and
therefore
be more successful when they are in the society at
first
.
For example
, when
such
types of
children
become adults, they clearly will know how to work, where to move, where to work, etc.
In other words
, they can make their plans more reasonably.
However
, they
also
lack the ability to think about others, which may lead to fewer friends they can make and cause their loneliness.
For instance
, Sherlock Holmes was a genius detective that can solve mysterious cases on his own, but due to a lack of emotional intelligence, he only had a few friends.
Therefore
, from my perspective, it is workable for
parents
to make
children
grow up independently. But at the same time,
children
are weak physically and mentally, so
parents
need to provide their
children
with a safe
environment
while teaching them part of things that are necessary.
To conclude, both views are not 100% perfect. It will be better to link them based on practice and let
children
grow up independently while providing them with a physically and mentally safe
environment
at the same time. And with that,
children
can grow up more healthily and maturely.