Important decisions are the most crucial ones to make it, since these decisions have the power of changing the whole direction of where our lives are heading, they can create big turning points or they can result with huge disappointments. In any case, I do not agree with the given statement. I believe that a person should make an important
by herself / himself. I will explore my reasons through
essay.
of all, no
, even the closest family members and best friends cannot know our own genuine intention on regards to a
specific topic. Since every individual is extremely unique, calling a vital
on something would only need to include that person itself. My very own experience with
is a compelling example: When I graduated from my university, I have come across with an opportunity of an abroad
in the Netherlands for six months. When I
discussed
new development with my family, they were not on the favouring of the idea of living all alone in another country for that much time. They tried to change my mind about going there,
there were some inside family arguments involved.
the situation became very unpleasant, I did not listen to them, and I did that internship. When I look back now, I am so glad that I have accepted the offer since the experience it has brought many new opportunities into my life. If I would have listened to my parents, I could not have had these new opportunities along with my current master’s degree which is again in the Netherlands that I applied during the time I was doing my internship.
, involving the others in the
process when trying to decide on important circumstances can lead a confusion.
is because having more people in the
process means the more ideas and
the more confusion. Since people tend to think situation regards their own life and their own desires, they can mislead the others in terms of making a crucial
.
,
of my close friends, she is always depending on the other’s ideas when it comes to making a
. She has been wanting to get a
for a long time, but she did not sure, what kind of
she would like to have.
of her brother is highly effective in my friend’s decisions in every aspect of her life. That brother suggested her to get a fox
on her arm, she
got that
. But after a couple of years, she realized that it was definitely what she was wanted, following that she has started a removing session, which will
for months and not only cost her a great amount of money but
pain. If she would make her
alone, I am pretty sure that she would not try to get rid of from the
. If she could make her
alone, I am pretty sure that she would not have to try to get rid of from the
.
To conclude, I do not agree with the given statement because people need to make their own
alone since everyone is unique and no
knows better than the individual itself and
involving the other’s ideas to the
process may result with huge regret.