Do you agree or disagree with the following statement? A person should never make an important decision alone. Use specific reasons and examples to support your answer.

Important decisions are the most crucial ones to make it, since these decisions have the power of changing the whole direction of where our lives are heading, they can create big turning points or they can result with huge disappointments. In any case, I do not agree with the given statement. I believe that a person should make an important

decision

by herself / himself. I will explore my reasons through

this

essay.

First

of all, no

one

, even the closest family members and best friends cannot know our own genuine intention on regards to a

one

specific topic. Since every individual is extremely unique, calling a vital

decision

on something would only need to include that person itself. My very own experience with

this

is a compelling example: When I graduated from my university, I have come across with an opportunity of an abroad

traineeship

in the Netherlands for six months. When I

first

discussed

this

new development with my family, they were not on the favouring of the idea of living all alone in another country for that much time. They tried to change my mind about going there,

moreover even

Accept comma addition

moreover, even

there were some inside family arguments involved.

Although

the situation became very unpleasant, I did not listen to them, and I did that internship. When I look back now, I am so glad that I have accepted the offer since the experience it has brought many new opportunities into my life. If I would have listened to my parents, I could not have had these new opportunities along with my current master’s degree which is again in the Netherlands that I applied during the time I was doing my internship.

Secondly

, involving the others in the

decision

process when trying to decide on important circumstances can lead a confusion.

This

is because having more people in the

decision

process means the more ideas and

therefore

the more confusion. Since people tend to think situation regards their own life and their own desires, they can mislead the others in terms of making a crucial

decision

.

For instance

,

one

of my close friends, she is always depending on the other’s ideas when it comes to making a

decision

. She has been wanting to get a

tattoo

for a long time, but she did not sure, what kind of

tattoo

she would like to have.

One

of her brother is highly effective in my friend’s decisions in every aspect of her life. That brother suggested her to get a fox

tattoo

on her arm, she

finally

got that

tattoo

. But after a couple of years, she realized that it was definitely what she was wanted, following that she has started a removing session, which will

last

for months and not only cost her a great amount of money but

also

pain. If she would make her

decision

alone, I am pretty sure that she would not try to get rid of from the

tattoo

. If she could make her

decision

alone, I am pretty sure that she would not have to try to get rid of from the

tattoo

. To conclude, I do not agree with the given statement because people need to make their own

decision

alone since everyone is unique and no

one

knows better than the individual itself and

also

involving the other’s ideas to the

decision

process may result with huge regret.