Some parents buy their children whatever they ask for, and allow their children to do whatever they want. Is this a good way to raise children? What consequences could this style of parenting have for children as they get older?

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Suggestion

It

is true that nowadays many parents are overly permissive and tend to spoil their children. In my opinion,

this

is not a good way to raise up their children and it can have a range of negative long-term consequences. If parents want to raise respectful and well-behaved children, I believe that a certain amount of discipline is necessary. It is important to say no to children when they misbehave or try to push against these boundaries.

This

is the only way to help young people to regulate their desires and develop self control. In my view, parents who do the opposite and give in their children demands, are more harm than good. They are failing their children

instead

of being kind to them. The children of indulgent parents are likely to grow up with several negative personality traits. The

first

and most dangerous is that these children will become self-centred adults who show little consideration for the feelings or needs of others.

As a result

,

this

attitude could make young people difficult to work successfully in teams with other colleagues. A

second

negative trait is an impulsive. A person who has never lived with any boundaries is likely to lack of the patience to carefully consider options before making decisions.

This

may lead,

for example

, to compulsive shopping, unwise financial decisions. To sum up, there are some parents, who still raise up their children on supporting whatever their children ask for, I believe that

this

is not a positive way and may create consequences for the development of their children in the future.