Some people hold the opinion that children should obey certain rules made by teachers and parents. Others, however, feel that these rules only limit children’s growth and impact their adult life later. Discuss both opinions and provide your own view.

Since time immemorial, different guidelines and

rules

have been being established by the guardians and teachers of

children

in order to lead their

life

smoothly, bringing some negative repercussions as well. Resultantly, whereas some individuals claim that these

rules

have detrimental effects on

children

’s present and future lives, others contend that they should abide by

rules

, enforced by their well-wishers so as to bring success in their lives. I, too, wholeheartedly feel that parent’s and teachers’ guidance would help

children

remove obstacles during their

life

journey and build a successful career. Draconian

rule

, made by the patrons of offspring sometimes have serious consequences on

children

’s mental growth down to not having equal ability to adapt, causing problems in the adult age

also

. To be more precise, a law or

rule

is created for all, but the adaptation capability is not the same for all

children

.

Thus

when a child cannot adjust to a

rule

, he or she usually suffers from inferiority, and

this

type of thinking later causes many problems, namely, shyness, not open to the public easily, to name but a few in the career

life

. To cite an example, an empirical study in 20010 reveals that 20% of professionals cannot do well in their job in that they cannot express themselves properly, and those professionals’ mental growth has not been developed due to the strict

rules

in their childhood. Plausible though abiding by

rules

is not easy and have some downsides, it can be solved by proper counselling. If once a child understands the benefits of guidelines, he or she surely abides by those

rules

spontaneously.

In other words

, inasmuch as

rules

are made for the well-being of

children

, it is imperative to make them comprehend that those guidelines will lead to fulfilling their dreams in lives. To exemplify, in Japan, when a new

rule

is imposed, the merits of that

rule

is clearly manifested to students so that they can easily accept that.

Hence

,

children

should obviously obey

rules

made by their patrons. In essence, even though strict

rules

contain the mental growth of a child, it can be mitigated by proper counselling that can bring success in later

life

. Eventually, I buttress the stand of obeying

rules

by

children

so as to bring prosperity in their

life

.