in some culture, children are often told that they can achieve anything if they try hard enough

Nowadays, in a certain segment of society, there has been an endless debate whether

children

should be raised in the enforcement or in a privileged situation. There are various positive as well as negative effects of

this

way of thinking.

This

essay will elaborate on both effects.

First

of all, when

children

are raised in a hard situation, they will struggle and give their best efforts to make everything right and achieve what they want.

Second

, they will learn either from the mistakes or obstacles that they encounter. Another advantage is

children

will be more prepared to face other inconvenient conditions so that they will become more adaptive and agile. There are

also

drawbacks that could occur if

children

are pushed to work hard

such

as they cannot enjoy their childhood, they will lose a golden moment to develop their potentials, and they will probably fail in school due to lack of time to study. In another perspective, raising

children

by giving them privilege will give some benefits

such

as they will have much more time to learn new things, create a friendship, and rest their body to maintain physical fitness. But

on the contrary

, there is a possibility that they will be less motivated to achieve something since they think that they can get every particular thing from their

parents

or relatives. In conclusion,

parents

should balance the way how they nurture their

children

.

Parents

should create an environment that can educate their

children

to raise their responsibility. Creating a reward and punishment rule will be so important to help

parents

ensure their

children

have motivation and self-responsibility.