Some people suggest that bringing up children by the whole family includimg uncles, aunts and grandparents is better, rather than only by parents. To what extend are you agree or disagree?

It is sometimes believed that taking
care
of
kids
by the whole family is better than only by
parents
. While it is true that looking after
children
by many
members
of the family is good, I believe that letting only
parents
bring up their offspring is more effective. On the one hand, there are several reasons why allowing relatives to take
care
of
children
is good for them. One reason is that the
kids
will have some relatives looking after them if their
parents
are busy.
Consequently
, the
children
will grow up very well due to many help of their family
members
. Another reason is each member of the family usually has a unique strength, which is formed because of their own practice.
This
advantage will contribute great help to the kid.
For example
, almost every extended families in Vietnam have their offspring growing up perfectly with many talents in many aspects
such
as sports.
On the other hand
, it seems to me that
children
are taken
care
of better by only
parents
than by the whole family.
Firstly
, being helped by many family
members
will lessen the
kids
' love for their
parents
since youngsters aren't looked after by their
parents
much. If
children
don't love their
parents
, they may not obey the advice of their mom and dad in the future.
Furthermore
, usually taking
care
of offspring will increase the knowledge of adults about their
kids
, which is formed while
parents
look after them.
For instance
, many
parents
in my country easily allow their
children
to do their own choice
instead
of prohibiting them as they believe and understand
kids
' personalities. In conclusion,
although
being looked after by many family
members
is advantageous for the
children
in some aspects, I believe that it is better to let
parents
grow up their
children
on their own. It is recommended that adults should
care
more about their offspring.
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