Some people believe that allowing children to make their own choices on everyday matters(such as food,clothes and entertainment)is likely to result in a society of individuals who only think about their own wishes.Other people believe that it is important for chlidren to make decisions about matters that affect them.

Nowadays,a number of individuals hold the view that permitting

kids

to decide their daily things probably will build a society where people merely think about their own interests.Others argue that it's crucial for

kids

to make their

choices

about things that matter to them.In my opinion,It is essential to allow

kids

to make their own

decisions

. Admittedly,if we just let

kids

make various

choices

,covering all aspects of their daily life,they actually may grow up with a selfish personality.That will do harm to the society.

However

,if we do not permit

children

to make their own

decisions

,they will not learn the responsibilities of growth

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and have a high possibility to run away from problems.

Besides

,they will still rely on their parents when they get older,which is harmful both to themselves and their parents.

Additionally

,we can guide our

children

to make wise and no harmful

decisions

,assuring that our

kids

not only hurt others' interests

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but

also

teach them to be helpful to the

overall

well-being of society. By letting

children

make their own

choices

,the behaviour will have a flow-on effect on

children

.On the one hand,once they have made

decisions

by themselves,they will learn that making

decisions

is not simply by saying yes or no.Before deciding on a certain thing,one needs to consider many different aspects,

such

as the pros and cons after making the

decisions

,and eventually find out what they should sacrifice.

On the other hand

,When we become older,we can not just ask all things-we have to abandon something.That's why we must find out the merits and demerits of each choice,and decide on one decision.In the process of the whole thing,

children

gradually will learn the knowledge of growing up. In summary,

while

letting

kids

make their

choices

have some downsides,it's undeniable that it is crucial for

children

to make their own

decisions

,for

that is

an inseparable part of

kids

' self-growth.And by carefully guiding them,we can maximize their advantages to the biggest extent.