some people believe that it is important allowing children to make their own choices on everyday matter is likely to result in a society of individuals who only think about own wishes. other people believe that it is important for children to make decisions about matters that affect them. discuss both these views and give your own opinion.

How much freedom should children have on everyday matters is

controvercial

marked by or capable of arousing controversy

controversial

. People, who are

gainst

in contact with

against

giving the

boudless

seemingly boundless in amount, number, degree, or especially extent

boundless

liberty to children, believe that it will result in creating a selfish and self

centered

being or placed in the center

centred

society, while

other

plural of other; the people or things not already mentioned

others

opine that certain level of freedom is necessary to nurture the creativity in growing minds. I believe, parents should

niether

not ever; at no time in the past or future

never

give a

total

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totally

free hand, nor they should restrain them

on

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at

every step. On the one hand, allowing children to do whatever they

want to and letting

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want and letting

them chose anything they like, creates a sense of arrogance and self

centerdness

which is

deterimental

(sometimes followed by 'to') causing harm or injury

detrimental

to their growth and mental development.

For instance

, the

psycholofical

mental or emotional as opposed to physical in nature

psychological

researches have revealed that, the childhood events and experiences have a lasting effect on shaping anyone's personality and mental approach.

That is

why parents should make important decisions for children, those are beneficial for their future.

On the contrary

, researches have expressed that, restraining a

child

from making simple decisions in the daily life, creates a sense of

depreviation

a state of extreme poverty

deprivation

depreciation

deprivations

and

such

children lack confidence. That means if a

child

knows, his liking or

dissliking

have or feel a dislike or distaste for

disliking

will not

making

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make

any difference in taking a final decision, it will put an end on his

,

Accept space

,

eventually

,

Accept space

,

thought process and it may shape him to be a good follower, but

definitly

without question and beyond doubt

definitely

, not a good leader.

For instance

, when

i

refers to the speaker or writer

I

was a

child

,

i

refers to the speaker or writer

I

was not even bothered to be asked, whether

i

refers to the speaker or writer

I

like or not what is being brought or bought for me, while

i

refers to the speaker or writer

I

could see other pupils doing

thing

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things

a thing

of their own choice, it made me frustrated and my school grades were decreased greatly. In conclusion, offering a

child

freedom to make simple decisions on day to day bases, will polish his thinking, encourage better ideas and rationalise his choices which are key qualities of a successful man.