Should young people choose their professions, or should their parents choose for them?

Nowadays, there are many concerns and discussions about professional choices during the youth. Some people believe that parents should influence in the children’s decision, others do not agree and say that each one has to take his own choice. In my opinion, no one should influence in other person’s professional option.

Firstly

, Each human being has his own abilities and facilities, so if

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takes an alternative which do not agree with his skills, he will not be succeeded.

For example

, a teenager who does not have mathematics skills will have much more difficult to become an engineer than that who has math facilities.

Secondly

, parents had their opportunity to pick a career before, so they should not influence or push their kids to decide and satisfy their needs and desires, it would be unfair.

For instance

, a friend of mine had selected to study medicine since her father insisted on it, but after years of sacrifices she realized that she hated to be a doctor, she wanted to be a teacher,

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discovery was frustrating and she blamed her father.

Thirdly

, unfortunately, most of people who did not select by themselves turned out frustrated and develop psychological problems as anxiety, depression, burnout syndrome and others issues. As an illustration, my neighbour decided to be a policewoman due to her whole family work as a police officer,

however she

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does not like it, even if she had the opportunity to change, she did not change because she was afraid of losing her salary and a secure job, so she developed depression and now she needs prescriptions and psychological therapy. To sum up, there are many opinions about the professional choice during the youth,

nevertheless

, I agree that the young people need to make their own decisions based on their abilities and dreams, when someone else make the decision for

this

person, the consequences may be negative.