Parents have always been concerned with how to nurture their
especially in terms of shaping their
.
, it has always been a controversial issue whether
’s
should be controlled strictly or they should be allowed to behave freely on their own choice. I believe, it is necessary that parents take a moderate approach so as to deal with
issue.
On the one hand, according to psychologists having strict control over kids’
is likely to
in resentment and reluctance in their manners which in turn, might cause them to become stubborn and obstinate grown-ups.
is because they virtually have never experienced the
to make their own choices.
, even by getting the most rational and logical advice from wise and experienced
,
grown-ups might still tend to oppose others in spite of being totally agreed deep down.
,
who are dominated strictly might not have the chance to properly develop their own decision-making and problem-solving skills and
, they might not make wise and mentally mature adults.
On the flip side, some
adopt the approach of giving thorough
in
to their
. Kids who are grown up under
circumstances might become over-confident adults who are arrogant enough to rely solely on themselves and not making efforts to learn things based on reality and truth or even refuse to ask others’ advice or opinions on shared issues.
, they cannot cooperate with others properly and might seem disobedient from
’s viewpoints which can
in becoming isolated or rejected by society.
, given the fact that in many cases
do not have enough knowledge and experience to make safe choices,
in
might
in getting hurt either physically or mentally. A simplistic example would be a child who is allowed to play with the stove and
gets hurt seriously.
To conclude, some
prefer controlling their
strictly while some
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. In my opinion, neither the former nor the latter approach will work efficiently if they are considered solely. Parents should balance out their
towards
so as to raise kids who are confident enough to make rational decisions and able to cooperate with
in society.