Some people view teenage conflict with their parents as a neccessary part of growing up, whilst others see it as something negative. Discuss your both views and give your own opinion.
There is no doubt that adolescence can be a difficult period for youngsters and their
parents
. Although
some people believe that conflict
at this
time does harm more than good, I would argue that it is an essential stage of teenagers development.
On the one hand, those who believe teenage conflict
is harmful might argue that it can damage relationships between parents
and their children. This
is because such
disputes can create tension in the family. For example
, it is quite common for young people to begin
smoking to impress their peers, but their confrontations with parents
can lead to difficulties with communication afterwards. In contrast
, if there is no conflict
between parents
and teenagers, there will be a much greater sense of happiness among family members.
On the other hand
, my view is that this
conflict
is important because it can help children to mature. The reason for this
is that by having disagreements adolescents can form and develop their own opinions. For instance
, a child may grow up in a family of meat-eaters but feel very strongly about not eating meat. if this
child does not voice their opinion, they will be going against their principles. However
they are going to engage in conflict
with their parents
, their conscience will be much clearer despite the agony of the argument.
In conclusion, despite the danger of demanding relationships that teenage conflict
can create, it is my firm belief that this
time of friction is a vital step for children to mature and become independently-minded adults.Submitted by Hussein on
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