In some cultures, children are often told that they can achieve anything if they try hard enough.

Children

in several cultures have frequently been taught that if they try their best, they will succeed at anything.

Although

this

probably makes some

children

being stressed because of encountering many failures, in my opinion, it is very beneficial since

this

can encourage

children

to overcome obstacles, and motivate them to reach their targets. Apparently, struggling in the journey of achieving goals may cause high tension in some

children

. To explain, if

children

face various difficult tasks repeatedly for a long time, it will discourage them to move forward due to tiredness and loss of confidence. To illustrate, when I was young my teacher tried to put me on a football team. Even though I did not like playing football, I pushed myself to play it since the teacher kept telling me that if I tried harder, I would get better.

However

, I ended up being unhappy and

finally

gave up.

Nonetheless

,

this

instruction is quite important since it may be difficult for

children

to achieve their aims without coaching. So, making the

children

believe in their abilities might help them gain confidence and stimulate them to concentrate on their goals. My niece might be a great example of

this

since she used to struggle on increasing her GPA from 3.5 to become 4.0. She passed through plenty of failures and they used to make her feel down. Fortunately, her parent has always told her to put all effort into her study.

This

brings her back and makes her reach the target. In conclusion, while telling

children

to try hard enough in order to accomplish their targets could make them depressed due to suffering from many mistakes, I believe that it remains crucial because it can drive

children

to overcome troubles and lead them to their goals.