Some people think that children should obey rules and do what their parents and teachers want them to do. Other people think that children controlled too much cannot deal with problems themselves in adulthood. Discuss both views and state your own opinion.

It was commonly recognized that independence has become an integral part of

children

's characters and it was shaped in

people

's youth time.

Therefore

, the parenting methods and education from the school system are essential for adolescents when they were growing up. As per my standpoint,

children

should cope with the fundamental rules and principles that their

parents

and

teachers

told them, as they can rear benefits of gaining a good habit and they should be independent somehow. On the one hand, one of the most noticeable advantages is that

children

can learn basic

manners

and live as acceptable citizens when they grow up. Experience of interpersonal skills from their

parents

can enable youngsters to make more friends, which is helpful and can be

further

applied in their later lives. To be specific, those who are polite and have good

manners

are bound to be successful in their personal

life

which

further

might have a happy

life

. While some

people

are impolite are bound to lose in their lives.

Consequently

, good

manners

and habits learned in

people

's teenage time can contribute to not only a good circle of friends but

also

a pleasurable

life

.

On the other hand

,

children

should have their own opinion on some important issues which may decide their

life

goals to some extent. Taking choosing a high school as an example, suggestions and experiences given by their

parents

and

teachers

are significant, meanwhile, what's the most critical is that

children

must have their own preference in picking a major and a university. There will be a gap between their

parents

' generation and the modern world, so teenagers should master the ability to judge what major he wants to study and

furthermore

what career he wants to pursue after graduating.

Thus

,

children

should have their independent ideas and thought despite they can get advice from

parents

and

teachers

,

then

finally

make their own decision. In summary, I personally think that experience and suggestions given by

parents

and

teachers

are important especially the skills to interact with other

people

. At the same time, adolescents should be more independent when they encounter some tough issues. With good

manners

taught by

parents

and independence to tackle problems, they would be successful in their personal

life

and workplace.