It is sometimes said that people should be encouraged to get married before they are 30, as this is best both for the individual and for society. Do you agree or disagree? Give reasons for your answer and include any relevant examples from your own knowledge or experience.

Some

people

argue that

marriage

is best done before they reach their thirties, while some think that it cannot be urged since love and

marriage

cannot be forced. Personally, I strongly disagree with the former statement. I believe that

people

have the right to take their

time

before they are fully committed to

marriage

. In several countries, early

marriage

is often demanded due to several reasons.

For example

, the governments are concerned with the low or even declining rate of population growth since the young

people

are too absorbed in their careers,

thus

not wanting to marry and have a

child

. If that happens, the country's future generations may encounter problems of not having enough manpower.

Additionally

, when a

couple

gets married at a later age, the

child

may suffer since the parents may be too old to continue their jobs to raise their

child

.

Furthermore

, they may not be able to accompany their

child

as much, especially when playing sports.

However

, in my opinion, urging

marriage

on others is not necessarily a good idea. Even if the wedding is done early, if the

couple

argues all the

time

, it will do even more harm later on.

For instance

, kids born from that

couple

might develop childhood trauma or mental health issues due to witnessing their parents' fight.

Moreover

,

child

abuse might occur if the parents are not capable of loving their own descendants.

Therefore

, I think it is best for

marriage

to occur naturally, without any pressure from external parties. In conclusion, I believe that

people

should be given their

time

and not be pressured to marry early. When a

couple

is ready for

marriage

, I think that will be the best

time

for them, since they are ready and willing to bear the responsibility that comes with it.