In the present age, the major section of society has a mindset to conceive a baby after entering the thirties. People believe that they should
first
focus on their career and after being successful, they will plan regarding family
life
. In the following paragraphs, I will discuss the possible reasons for
this
thinking and
further
, I will give valid points as to why having children later in
life
could possibly lead to disadvantages.
To begin
with, the root cause for
this
mindset is that nowadays, society has money minds and they want to earn a handsome amount of money in the initial stage of their career. For the purpose of earning money, young couples avoid conceiving, because they think that with kids, they will not be able to target their careers.
Furthermore
, the young generation like to do social interactive activities by having parties and going on vacation with friends and they like to enjoy their
life
like a free bird. But, our generation believes that after having a child,
life
will not be the same. So, that's why couples avoid having kids at the early stage of marriage.
For instance
, after a child, you cannot go to late-night parties and you cannot leave him alone at home. So, after having offspring, your whole day revolves around them and you cannot spare time for yourself and it is a valid reason by people do not want to conceive early.
Though people want to have kids later, there are certain drawbacks to choosing
this
path.
Firstly
, after a certain age, the count of sperm decreases and
similarly
females
also
start facing hormonal issues due to which sometimes it becomes impossible to give birth to a baby naturally. The
second
drawback is that when individual plans to have offspring at a later stage, in
this
case, the age gap between parents and children increases. Due to
this
, there is a generation gap among both generations which leads to clashes between children and parents.
So, in the end, I would like to conclude that though a career
also
matters in the individual's
life
at the same time, he should
also
focus on family growth and try to maintain a balance between both roles.