in some culture the parents arrange marriage for their children but other people choose their own marriage partner, what are the advantages and disadvantages of each system

marriage is a very serious and determining decision in our life,

therefore

we need to select our life partner in order to help us in

this

determination, and

this

is a common way nowadays.

however

, we see some cultures in other countries try to arrange a wedding for their children and take responsibility

instead

of them.

to begin

with, choosing your spouse by yourself has advantages,

Firstly

the common one is a romantic love story which they will experience only those who choose each other,

secondly

, those who spend time to know themselves will share the same values and ideas,

in addition

,

this

is the best way to good communication which is very necessary for a happy merger.

for instance

, in nowadays we can observe a lot of couples live happily because they only decide to be together,

this

system can take a long time because they need a lot of time to go forward with their relationship step by step. on the flip side, when the family intervene in the wedding decision they enforce their values on the couple, which led to breaking the cornerstone of a happy life,

for example

, those who obey family values lose themselves and feel emotionally unsatisfied because they come over their feelings

also

we can mention another disadvantage like the poor communication between them which in almost of cases led to divorce. even if the parent's decisions bring a lot of problems they can

also

bring some advantages like providing financial support for their growth. in conclusion, both practices have their benefits and their drawbacks but in my, opinion I think

this

decision should be taken by the couples themselves and the family's role is to intervene only for support and

this

best way for the two systems to work together.