In some cultures, children are often told that they can achieve anything if they try hard enough. What are the advantages and disadvantages of giving children this message?

It is a common belief among most people that

children

are able to obtain anything if they put their minds to it.

However

,

this

has both merits and demerits. Encouraging

children

to achieve everything they tend to is the most considerable issue in parenting.

For instance

, a

kid

is told to try his own best to gain good marks in school, and the result would be something fantabulous. Due to the diligence of the

kid

.

On the other hand

, the

kid

would become more mature in trying hard.

Moreover

,

this

belief

also

brings the common proverb to the light that ‘no pain, no gain’.

Thus

, parents

also

ask their kids to be more inquisitive in every situation. The more the

children

try hard, the better result they get.

Nevertheless

, there are some external factors which might be counted as drawbacks. As a simple example, consider the

kid

who had not tried hard enough and been a lazy student

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the class.

Then

, out of blue, s/he would surprisingly get the best score.

Therefore

,

this

can be a real let-down for that

kid

who had been diligent enough for gaining a good mark.

That is

,

this

common belief and that well-known proverb cannot fit all. Sometimes cheating is more powerful than diligence. To recapitulate briefly, I contemplate that parents had better ask their

children

to be active and vigorous enough in their lessons, no matter if they could get the best score or not.

This

is so much better than finding themselves in a dark tunnel of rivalry among classmates.