Some people think that the ideal parents are strict disciplinarians who keep their children on the straight and narrow path with firm yet loving control. Others argue that ideal parents form loving bonds with their children through a relationship closer to friendship and a less authoritarian approach.

The problem of parenting and the relationship between

children

and

parents

have

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tormented the minds of many people for generations: people do not stop arguing about which model of interaction with a

child

is the most effective. Some consider that it is necessary to grow up

children

in severe conditions and austere limitations, but I strongly believe that raising kids in

friendly

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and affirmative atmosphere is the best option. To start with, it is essentially important for every parent to know about their

children

’s

life

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to prevent them from unpleasant or even dangerous situations, and for

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it is necessary that the

child

trusts his

parents

and feels secure with them. The

child

's unformed psychology forces him or her to be driven by

such

a feeling as fear, and constant strictness and firmness in the family make the

child

more isolated and private, so as not to anger or disappoint the

parents

once again. In the meantime, if the

child

is assured that the

parents

will understandingly and calmly treat his mistakes, he or she will definitely tell the

parents

about his problems.

Moreover

, a

child

and especially a teenager

needs

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to socialize in society, experience new activities, expand their horizons, and not act on the orders of their

parents

. The

child

should have freedom for self-realization, because,

firstly

,

this

way they will be able to truly determine the vector of

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development and,

secondly

, remain grateful to their

parents

for having been given all the opportunities for

this

.

Otherwise

,

parents

risk losing not only the trust of their

children

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but

also

communication with them when they grow up. And

last

but not least, history knows many cases when the strictness of

parents

led in the long run to mental health issues. Severity is often accompanied by quarrels and punishments, which make the

child

traumatized. His or her perception of reality may be formed incorrectly, which can cause diseases

such

as depression, neurosis or worse. Raising a

child

in a friendly atmosphere of love and understanding,

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him an adequate amount of freedom is much less capable of traumatizing the psyche.

To sum up

, being a good parent is an essential problem of many generations, but there is still no

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working formula. But I strongly believe that raising

children

without excessive

rigor

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and restrictions has more advantages than the opposite model of

behavior

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.