Some people say that your first impressions when youo meet someone are always right. To what extent do you agree with this statement?
Judging
someone
’s personality by first
impressions
has always been common in our society. I completely disagree with this
unreasonably sustained assumption, as people
must have time to deeply know each other. Firstly
, it is possible to meet someone
that has been going through their worst days in life, so actions and sense of humour are affected. Also
, there are extremely shy individuals who need confidence to properly show themselves.
First
and foremost, the first
impressions
transmitted by someone
depending
on how they are feeling at the meeting moment. Wrong verb form
depend
Further
, it is obvious that if a person has been going through problems or highly stressful situations, he or she would not be able to present themselves amicably. For example
, research has shown that first
impressions
among individuals that had contact with each other in a traffic jam are awful because it represents a stressful moment. To summarize, people
do not show their true personality when they are under pressure, so time is needed to properly know someone
else, especially when it comes to shyness.
Apart from
this
, being shy can also
make a huge impact on first
impressions
, since it hides the most interesting characteristics of someone
. When meeting an individual that is
not outgoing, patience is the key to building a relationship with confidence, so both would feel comfortable around each other. I remember the day I met my best friend, the shiest person I had ever known, we took the longest three months in my life to really get along. Therefore
, sometimes it takes time and patience to understand others and it is clear that
first
impressions
cannot define someone
.
In conclusion, stressful situations are the greatest cause of bad first
impressions
. Although
some people
do not believe these situations are capable of changing how someone
presents themselves, the evidence clearly shows the opposite, getting even worse among shy people
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