In some cultures, children are often told that they can achieve anything if they try hard enough. What are the advantages and disadvantages of giving children this message?

"giving more effort will lead to obtaining any role in life"

That is

what a few societies would often tell

kids

,

one

of the benefits is that it would motivate the

child

to seek success ,

while

the drawbacks might reflect on the

child

's attitude and mental health in a short and in a long term. On the

one

hand, telling

kids

to give their maximum effort will encourage them to have big dreams and try more to be successful, to be more specific, they will become more competitive and

this

will be seen in their

overall

improved performance among children who are not giving much effort,

for example

, Beethoven

one

of the most famous musicians had a really strict dad who used to always push him to try even harder from a very young age,

this

was paid off by him being well known between his fellows and people who still mention his name until

this

day.

On the other hand

, the impacts of social skills and psychological health are bad on the

child

, since we are pushing the kid to work and giving him a huge responsibility to try hard like adults which will steal from them their childhood, and even worse

this

mental health effects that they will carry into their adulthood, a recent study was conducted recently on

kids

who are required to do a lot, have weak social connection and friendships, and they suffer more than other

kids

with loneliness and grow up depressed or evolved with at least

one

psychological disorder.

To sum up

, exposing children to do more might have advantages like granting a successful future, but

also

the disadvantages are taking part from the

child

's personal behaviour in his lifetime.