In some cultures, children are often told that they can achieve anything if they try hard enough. What are the advantages and disadvantages of giving children this message?

In some cultures,

children

are often told that they can achieve anything if they try hard enough. What are the advantages and disadvantages of giving

children

this

message? Some

parents

want the best for their

children

, so they tell their

children

to put more effort into achieving their

parents

' goals. In

this

essay will be discussed the benefits and drawbacks of

this

statement. On the one hand, motivating your

children

and supporting them is the best way to build their future life.

To begin

with, many mothers want their

children

to become doctors or engineers, to, have a high salary, and be independent of others in adulthood.

In addition

, many researches showed that

children

motivated and supported by their family in childhood are more likely to work in high-ranked jobs.

Furthermore

, showing them that they achieve everything or whatever they want can create strong self-confidence.

On the other hand

,

parents

should not encourage their

children

to do impossible things if they do not have a chance to support them in the future. To start with, many people want their

children

to be wealthier than them,

however

, telling and sometimes forcing them to become someone they do not want can destroy the child's mental state and lead to suicide.

For example

, in recent years a female student who believed in herself could not pass the exam with high marks and left a message about "how she can look at her father's face with shame" before her suicide. In conclusion, supporting your

children

is the best thing that

parents

can do,

however

, making them believe in something that they could not make the

children

suffer in the future. It is not always recommended to encourage teens to do what they do not want, because, it will result in depression