In some countries, marriages are arranged by the parents, but in other cases, people choose their own marriage partner. Discuss and give your own opinion.

The topic of love versus arranged

marriage

has become increasingly important in recent years.

While

some individuals choose their spouses themselves, others outsource

this

decision to their parents.

This

essay will discuss both cases before reaching a conclusion. Some people find their partners themselves which has its own benefits. They develop a deep understanding and trust in each other which helps them tackle the realities and hardships of

marriage

better, as opposed to an arranged scenario. Their expectations are

also

set right and there are fewer chances of surprises as compared to individuals marrying based on their parent's liking, in which case one can

end

up married to issues they did not sign up for, e.g. a drug addict or someone in extreme debt.

However

when selecting your own partner and falling in love before

marriage

becomes a norm, sometimes parties involved can become too afraid to commit at all. They always want to look for something better, and in the pursuit of getting to know their significant other as best as they can, they

end

up living together like a married couple without the commitment of

marriage

.

Hence

the process of getting to know the person can

end

up in unwanted pregnancies and

delay

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in marriages. On the other

end

of the spectrum, when parents look for a partner for you, all contenders are ready to settle and get married, leading to less wastage of time.

Furthermore

, sometimes parents do know better and their age and wisdom can help them see things younger people may ignore. Yet, many times

this

can become a strict tradition and marrying by your own choice can be seen as shameful.

This

is the reality of the majority of families in Pakistan, which leads to people being forced into marriages.

To conclude

, choosing your own partner can flourish your

marriage

with a deeper connection

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while

depending on your elders can save you lots of wasted time and energy trying to find the perfect person. Both have their own pros and cons and either option is acceptable as long as the individual chooses the method themselves without any external pressures.