Some suggest that
children
should be taught by their
parents
how to become good members of society,
while
others argue that they should learn
this
in school.
While
parents
can educate their
children
in manners, I believe that school provides a more structured form of learning and helps
students
acquire skills, required to be a good individual.
On the one hand,
parents
prepare their
children
for school life by teaching them how to behave and instil basic moral and ethical values. They are the ones, who understand their
children
in and out because of their immense involvement in their son's or daughter's personal life, right from birth.
As a result
, they can guide their
children
in being someone with high ethics and morals.
For example
, a recent study by the University of Cambridge stated that
children
who grew up in foster care are often aggressive and arrogant towards other people compared to those who were raised in a homely environment by their
parents
.
However
, I would like to argue that solely betting on
parents
to teach their wards about morality and ethics invites a bias and creates, for their
children
, a myopic vision of the world.
On the other hand
, schools and universities provide an excellent environment for
students
to learn different perspectives about the world and give them the freedom to decide the difference between right and wrong, which in turn ensures that they grow up to be responsible citizens. The structural curriculum in the educational centres often involves group studies and projects, which enhance the skill to work together and assist others, which is an essential trait of a good citizen.
For instance
, the ISCE board of Indian education has a mandatory subject called moral science that evaluates
students
on different hypothetical moral scenarios, through which they learn a great deal about the dos and don'ts of society.
Therefore
, I feel the education received by
children
in schools, provides a more holistic approach for learning ways to become ethical people.
In conclusion,
although
parents
can educate their
children
on basic morality because they spend most of their time with their sons and daughters, I believe that schools and colleges provide a more structured and experimental way of learning the same which guides the
students
to decide the difference between right and wrong, and in turn, become better people.