Some people give their children whatever they ask for and let them do whatever they like. Is this good for children? What are the consequences of this when children will grow up?

These days several parents

give

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are given

their

children

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children's

child's

autonomy to freely make decisions on their own and

also

buy them anything they demand out of love. In my opinion,

this

approach

is the main cause of

behavioral

of or relating to behavior

behavioural

problems in children and hinders their social and moral development once they become adult.

Firstly

, the belief that children should be allowed to do whatever they want and their demands should be fulfilled stems from the fact that they ought to be made independent.

Moreover

, some people have a rationale that for children to become resilient and robust, it is important that they need to make decisions on their own regarding food, clothes, and education.

Consequently

,

this

approach

will make children responsible and accountable at an early age.

Moreover

, when they will become adult, they could make better career choices regarding their careers without having to seek the guidance of their parents.

However

, there are some drawbacks associated with

this

approach

, particularly its impact on

children

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children's

child

behavior

manner of acting or controlling yourself

behaviour

and social outlook. Indeed, by allowing children to do and get whatever they think is

better

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best

for them will create narcissistic tendencies in them.

Furthermore

, when they would grow up, the impulsive nature will affect their personality and

instead

of being dutiful towards their parents they could become defiant and flout their orders.

For instance

, in western culture, it is common that children are allowed to make decisions regarding future without obtaining their parent's consent.

As a result

, they forget the fact that their parents have sacrificed their lives, energy, and resources and often leave them in OLD-CARE homes, forcing them to live

last

stages of their lives in loneliness. In conclusion,

although

the idea of making children independent by fulfilling all their wishes may have some benefits in making them competitive, it is my firm conviction that perils associated with

this

approach

could spoil the fragile nature of children and make them defiant and insolent when they will grow up.