In some cultures, children are often told that they can achieve anything if they try hard enough. What are the advantages and disadvantages of giving children this message?

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harder than ever to achieve more and due to

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some people often tell

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that they can succeed in anything if they try harder.

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has its own merits and demerits and I will discuss both in

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essay with specific reasons. Trying hard has become a new trend in recent times but sometimes people tend to forget that there are some disadvantages attached to

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of working harder to achieve greater heights if

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advice is given to

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, the skill set of every human differs from others and we are all unique and giving

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to

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will only push them to try harder in a domain

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not meant for them.

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, they can climb the success ladder by honing the skills that they can perform better than others rather than pushing for something which is not their cup of tea. To cite an example, my neighbour pushed his son to opt for science as his career and he gave him the same

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but the pupil was really good with business studies and

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he failed miserably in his 11th grade even after working harder than most of the students and eventually he chose to study commerce and he achieved great success.

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, the

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of working hard in order to do better adds to the psychiatric stress on

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as they push too hard to achieve more rather than focussing on

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innate talent.

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, I was always good at acting and used to perform plays in my childhood but I was asked to

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harder on mathematics and it added extra stress and I could not cope up with it and

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I was mentally stressed and I had to take help from a psychiatrist. These are the demerits of giving

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to

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as it just adds more pressure but there is a bright side to it and we will now discuss the same.

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, there are some pupils who possess the skills of studying and working harder to achieve great heights and some people give them

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to give them an extra push to

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towards their goals. Motivation is the biggest advantage that can be drawn out of

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as all it takes is a little more effort to achieve something big.

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, one of my friends was great at studying but was never willing to

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hard and after his mother gave her

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and showed him a motivational video related to it, he was able to put the force into the right direction and worked harder to reach greater heights and is a successful lecturer in a top university in New Delhi. In conclusion, there are many pros and cons attached to the

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of working harder to achieve anything which we discussed above. Working hard in the right direction will always be advantageous for

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and with a little push they can achieve anything.