Teenagers relationship with parents most of the time is not at its best what are the solutions?

Many people might think that families aren’t that important to teenagers. But for teenagers, parents and families are the source of care and emotional support. Parents and kids must learn how to manage conflicts because they are inevitable. “Every individual has an instinct for conflicts. At least all healthy individuals,” Hilary Burrock sai

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of us experience conflicts.

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words, conflicts are natural and inevitable. There is potential for conflict to be harmful to the parent-child relationship. Conflict

that is

too intense, too frequent, too long lasting, and that leads to aggression and disturbances in work or relationships requires therapeutic help (Patterson & Forgatch, 1985).

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essay is going to focus on two of the most common problems which are teens’ behavior an

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manner of acting or controlling yourself

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s’ expectations. Parents are worried about their child behaving in a wrong way. most teenag

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are heavily influenced by people outside their family with music, what to wear and other things that their parents may not approve of. Parents need to understand that

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is normal and they are

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still important to their children’s lives, listen to their point of view, whatever it is, about friends’ relationships or broken rules and give them a chance to explain themselves and understand the consequences of their actions. Another common problem is the parents’ expectations. Parents have expectations of their child with everything. Their children never seem to be good enough for them: grades are not good enough, the bedroom is not clean enough, and time with friends is always too long. That makes their teenagers the feeling of stress, which may create conflicts with their parents. Parents and teens need to talk to each other, parents must trust their children’s decisions. Trust is important to teens because they want you to see that they are making good choices. In order to do that, you need to trust them. Raising children sometimes just caring and teaching is not enough. Parents must pay attention, understand and try to give love and warmth to the children as well. Parents

also

need to give them the opportunity to do as they like. In conclusion, parents and teens are on different planes most of the time. While parents were a teenager once, they’ve forgotten many of the stresses and experiences that teens might be going through. Teens

also

can’t understand the choices their parents make because they haven’t reached that level of growth.

Therefore

, lots of different problems can be solved with a lot of patience of both parents and teens.

This

is the best solution of the relationship between teenagers and their parents. References Patterson, G. R., & Forgatch, M. S. (1985). Therapist behavior as

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Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, 53, 846-851.