Some people believe that you should strictly control your children’s behaviour, while some others believe children should be free to choose their behaviour. Discuss both views and give your own opinion.

Nowadays, some people often argued about whether

children

's behaviour should be controlled by

parents

or they can choose the behaviour by their own desire. As far as I am concerned, there are advantages on

both

sides and

this

essay will discuss

both

views which can be given below.

First

of all, one of the

first

benefits for

parents

should strictly their

children

is to guide their attitude in the right manners.

This

would mean that

children

who are being guided by their

parents

are more likely to have a strong conscience to tell what is right and wrong in every situation. The reason for

this

is that they do not have any experience and knowledge about how to behave in the right manner.

For example

, one of my friends from school who is always guided by his

parents

is able to choose his friends who behave with the correct attitude rather than having friends who often disobey rules.

On the other hand

, despite the advantages of being controlled, there are positive sides to letting

children

decide their own behaviour.

Children

are able to develop their personal abilities without any pressure from guardians or

parents

.

This

would mean that they would become independent and responsible, and provide an opportunity to become more mature in the future.

For instance

, one of my co-workers is often getting a reward because of his good manners towards the boss. To sum up,

both

views in

this

argument have different benefits and it depends on people's opinions.

Therefore

, people should consider

both

arguments clearly which match them in the future.