In some cultures,children are often told that they can achieve anything if they try hard enough. What are the advantages and disadvages of giving children this message?

All

parents

who care about their

children

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will try their hardest to help their

children

reach their dreams and have a great

future

ahead of them. Once their

children

are born, the

kids

'

future

becomes their primary goal and the main reason they exist. So,

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is no wonder they sometimes say things to their

kids

to motivate them that

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no proof. In

fact

, sometimes they might lie for the sake of the

children

.

One

of the most controversial lies is that they can reach whatever they desire if they try hard enough.

Although

this

is not a

fact

and might harm the

children

in a way, there are

also

a few benefits to

this

saying. First of all, lies are not a good tool for

parents

to teach their

children

anything. As a matter of

fact

, lies are always hurtful and

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and even if it does not seem so at

first,

it will come back to haunt the

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eventually. So, the

fact

that

parents

use lies to motivate their

children

will hurt the

kids

in the

future

and cause them trust issues or even

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in the opposite way and

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a lack of motivation in the

kids

.

Also

, if

parents

only insist on

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hard work

and not other necessary aspects of every child's life, they might grow up depending only on their hard-working

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and become

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one

-dimensional person which is a disaster in

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society.

On the other hand

, there are some benefits to

this

particular lie that we cannot omit.

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has always been considered as

one

of the best qualities

one

could achieve.

Therefore

, many

parents

would want their

children

to become hard-working in exchange for a small lie.

Furthermore

, the idea of

one

being able to achieve literally anything in his life, in itself, is a great source of motivation and we've seen so many great people throughout

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history with only their high hopes and

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to have had big success in their jobs and achieved their dreams.

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any ethical question, there are some benefits and

also

some negative points to lying to our

children

and telling them that they can achieve anything if they want and try, is

one

of those lies. Indeed,

this

could lead them to disappointment in the

future

and make them

one

-dimensional.

However

, it could

also

make them want to try hard and lead them to greatness. Whether or not to use

this

lie to the advantage of your

kids

is of great importance and

one

cannot easily answer that question. Best

parents

always consider both the upsides and the downsides to

this

question and decide wisely.