In some cultures, children are often told that they can achieve anything if they try hard enough. What are the advantages and disadvantages of giving children this message? Give reason for your answer and include any relevant example from your own knowledge or experience. Write at least 250 words.

Some

parents

in some cultures usually give their

children

the

advice

that they can achieve anything as long as they work hard at it.

Furthermore

, the

children

can take the advantages from that

message

and the disadvantages in the same time. The advantages that

children

can get from

this

advice

are:

First,

they will give their best at any tasks that they receive because they feel getting supports from their beloved

parents

.

Such

as, when they think the math is difficult and their mother says that they can get A+ when they study hard it will persuade them to study more than usual.

Second,

the

advice

is like persuasive order to their brains to do more. In example, the

children

really want to be the doctor and the

parents

give them the

message

, they will really feel comfortable with it and try the best than they have done before. But, the

message

is like double edge sword

also

give the

children

the disadvantages, which are:

First,

the

children

do not realize their real capabilities.

Such

as the

children

with no capabilty in painting at all and their

parents

force them with the

advice

, how is the end? The

children

will fail at it.

Second,

sometimes

this

kind of

message

will forces the

children

to do some tasks that they do not like. Nowadays we can see an example, that many

parents

in the world suggest their

children

to be someone whom the

children

do not like.