Some people think it's better to choose friends who always have the same opinions as them. Other people believe it is good to have friends who sometimes disagree with them. Discuss both these views and give your own opinion.

While
it is believed by some that good
friends
should share the same views, others contend that true
friendship
allows different opinions occasionally.
Although
agreeability can maintain a harmonious relationship, I think an authentic
friendship
should be built on mutual understanding and respect for varied thoughts without fear of conflict. Seeking for validation of one’s belief and value, many individuals tend to look for
friends
with similar minds
whereas
they would agree with each other on most of the issues.
This
kind of relationship brings about harmony
as well as
comfort and emotional support.
According to
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psychological research in London, when people ask for
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from
friends
, most of them are actually looking for agreement and approval of their own thoughts from third parties.
However
, despite that agreeability can foster peaceful and smooth
friendship
, fear of conflict might
also
lead to suppressed feelings and hindrance of diverse opinions.
In contrast
,
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relationships are made of sugar and spice but not always everything nice. Healthy and authentic
friendship
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should be built on mutual understanding and respect, and cherish occasional disagreements. In fact, constructive debates between peers, which stimulate critical thinking and foster varied perspectives, can be more than inspirational.
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with those who could give them or tolerate different, yet real thoughts.
In addition
, managing conflicts between peers may develop tactful social skills, enriching their life experience
as well as
personal growth. In conclusion, though agreeability is appreciable for holding
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friendship
, I believe true
friends
can stand diverse views and constructive disagreements, which in turn builds an even stronger bond.
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Topic Vocabulary:
  • bond
  • support
  • unconditional love
  • shared values
  • mutual understanding
  • trust
  • emotional well-being
  • interdependence
  • societal norms
  • companionship
  • loyalty
  • advice
  • experiences
  • mentorship
  • trustworthy
  • reliable
  • reliable
  • cherish
  • strengthen
  • deepen
  • attach importance to
  • prioritize
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