In this present-day world, it has to be said that, children may become self-centred in future if parents allow them to take decisions by themselves on their choices. On the contrary, some people assume that adolescents have to take their decisions in some stance to become stalwarts ,however, they are not mature enough. Ithink that,no parents never like to ruin their kids' life or later hurt them;and parents have the responsibility to help their offspring to make the right decisions on their choices: food, clothes and entertainment; as well as children should obey their parents for a fruitful future. This essay will enunciate both notions in detail with appropriate examples.