A number of people argue that the process to gain adults is making a dispute with parents, while another side said something false which should be restricted. We All know that being against parents is ill-norm as long as in the right way. In my religion told that we have to obey our parents because the pray is granted. Whereas, if our parents give commands to us for being poor, we can decline their asking. I believe that making decisions on our own is obtained through growing up, therefore the different opinions should occur at least with our parents. In this writing, I will light on the necessity of family conflict and the against.