In today's modern era we live, a number of parenting methods have come over the years,and parents choose which method is the best to raise their children,however, some parents find this way of rising useless and choose to raise their children the way they did, the traditional way, where children were raised in a strict way. In this essay, I will argue the benefits of letting children make their own decisions and how it will help them in life and, also the disadvantages of this way of parenting.