In some cultures, people find it useful and sometimes necessary to teach children that they can achieve anything if they try hard enough. Once, we were all small children, full of dreams, hopes and expectations for our future. We used to dream about perfect lives, jobs, and friendships. In our dreams, stress didn’t exist, all problems used to be small and irrelevant, easy to solve. Growing up though, we slowly started to understand how often things don’t turn out they we wanted them to.