It is irrefutable that competitiveness is a strong feature of every human being. No one can deny the fact that the sense of competition brings stability and better quality of achievements in our life. Moreover, there are two methodologies against the abilities of men and women, some people believe that men have much more capabilities than women, while others reject this notion. Thus, In this essay, I shall elaborate on my point of view by analysing both sides of the argument before deducing a proper conclusion.