Every single individual is born as a baby.Then they grow up and became an adult,after living some years and they die.This is how the soul goes on the earth.However, life is like the ocean;it goes up and down.According to the,physiologist the younger age is the most golden phase in our human lifetime.Therefore we must be concerned about how to spend our life happily and productively.people think they must engage with the traditions of their society.On the other ,hand others imagine they have the right to live their existence by themselves.Here I am going to describe both points of view.