In the past ,families have deep meaningful connections. nowadays relationship were lost therefore ,in this essay we will argue the reasons why the relationship isn't like what used to be in the past and the effect on communities .long distance between the kids and there parents the distance is an issue of your parents live in another state it will take an hours to arrive to their house it you wouldn't rather going. Also ,children want to be dependant on themselves they don't want anyone to control their life they want to make their own decisons .for example in recent studieds found that 75% of children's who lived far away from their parents have connection issues .